My girlfriend was d... I don't know what to do?

The best thing you can do is just bear with it, it's probably the most emotional experience a woman can have. In all honesty, if she means enough to you seek a psychology therapist for sessions without her. It isn't that you have any sort of problem/issue/whatever, its to open your eyes, understand things your girlfriend may do, say or react to. It will seriously help you understand what she is and will be going through. She needs help but only help that people who lover her can give: be patient & understanding.